I agree with what huimin said...

this is what she said in her blog :

"For some people, this is a good thing cause they do not squeeze their brain juices dry just by thinking of what the relationship holds for them in future. Yet, it can be a bad thing too. Cause your heart can get broken countless times or, you will find out that you have wasted time on someone that totally did not suit you.

I admit that i do enter relationships as quickly as i end them the moment i feel that he wasnt the one for me. I always told myself that if i feel happy with someone and he is interested in me, why not give it a go? Who knows what the future holds?

Yet after i enter the relationship, as i learn more about someone, then questions like “Will i be able to tolerate him in future?” “Will he change his bad habits?”, “what will the future be with him?” form in my head. If i am unable to paint a wonderful picture of the future, then i will end the relationship. Sometimes friendships can also be ruined because of my attitude towards relationships." written by Ee HuiMin.

Totally Agree ! totally agree